It’s 2016 and I am still trying to figure out why in God’s name so many people hate Ronald Weasley.
Because just-
For a moment, just think.
Harry Potter and Ron Weasley both have what the other desperately wants and needs. It’s right there in the Mirror of Erised from the VERY FIRST BOOK.
Harry is desperate for a family, a loving, caring FAMILY.
Ron is desperate to just be freaking NOTICED for once.
Ron is a part of the most incredible loving family ever.
Harry is famous before he can walk and talk, and gets bowed to by strangers in a shop.
One of the things that makes their friendship so beautiful is this stupid IRONY, and how they are friends despite this.
But Harry cannot ever give Ron what Ron needs. All Harry can do is make the matter WORSE, however hard he tries to do the opposite, because he’s HARRY JAMES POTTER and any friend of his is not going to get a look in, no matter whether they deserve it.
And then we have Ron, who is able to provide for Harry the next best thing to a family of his own, a chance to become part of a family who will treat him as if the only difference between them and him is red hair and freckles.
And Ron knows that if he does this, if he gives Harry what he needs, it will make his own need EVEN MORE UNATTAINABLE.
Because the fact that he has so many brothers and sisters is what gives him that need in the first place.
And welcoming ANOTHER damn brother?
An extraordinarily FAMOUS extra brother?
Can we just consider how selfless an action that is?
And yet he still does it, he still writes to his mum for a Christmas present for Harry, he still invites him to his overcrowded, rickety house ever summer, he STILL flies a car to SURREY just to give his friend a family, the thing he so desperately needs.
Just-
How can you hate someone like that?
How?
Yes!!!
So now let’s talk about the event that most Ron-haters use against him, his leaving during the horcrux hunt.
Now, as much as Steve Kloves wants you to think that it was because of a warped love triangle, it was not.
Ron has shared his family with Harry, the most precious thing, the only thing, he has. This action has put them in even more jeopardy than they might have been in. Ron is sick with worry about them, but Harry seems to not share this concern (he does, but he is not showing it at the moment for a myriad of reasons).
To Ron this is the ultimate betrayal. Here is Harry, who risked his own life, and the lives of others, to save Sirius when he thought he was in danger, but now he is doing nothing to ensure the safety of their family. They are making no progress and Harry seems not to have no urgency to do so.
Does Ron have insecurities? Yes (who doesn’t? especially at 17?)! But he has always dealt with them far better than most; it is only under the influence of the darkest magic that he falters. But, despite it all, he returns. How can you not love someone who would do all that?
I LOVE MY SON
So people who are mad that Ron left… like, totally missed the point of that whole sequence? Like, the feeling of Ron leaving was not at all, “Ron, how dare you leave.” It was, “Ron, please come back.” The entire purpose of that whole business is to show how indispensable Ron is. To show that Ron is wrong to undervalue himself. Everything Harry and Hermione undertake in his absence is doomed. Without him they are brittle and prone to despair. When he comes back, hope comes back.
Depriving Harry of Ron is an incredibly successful attack by the Horcrux; he can’t be held responsible any more than Ginny is responsible for opening the Chamber of Secrets. But we hold him responsible, because he holds himself responsible, and sets out to atone.
Ron comes through like a Gryffindor in that entire business. Coming back and making amends is one of the bravest actions in the entire series.
the lead singer from Against Me!, the iconic trans punk band, is releasing her new album on sirius’ birthday
awww, you made me have some good feelings just by sending me that ask! i don’t know what a wan-tan-soup is but i’ll look it up and maybe even have some one day! <3<3<3
i just bought a bottle of maple syrup bc my banana bread recipe said i needed a spoonful of it
but now i have this big bottle of maple syrup in my fridge and i have no idea what to do with it
do i use it like a spread on toast? do i put it in my tea instead of sugar? do i drink it straight from the bottle? do i just bake a shitload of banana bread?
help me
thanks everyone! i shall be making pancakes soon!
… my “eat healthy plan” is going to be completely forgotten
question to my canadian followers, if i have any:
i just bought a bottle of maple syrup bc my banana bread recipe said i needed a spoonful of it
but now i have this big bottle of maple syrup in my fridge and i have no idea what to do with it
do i use it like a spread on toast? do i put it in my tea instead of sugar? do i drink it straight from the bottle? do i just bake a shitload of banana bread?
ugh okay so the nagini controversy is obviously valid as hell bc like yeah that’s Not Good and jk rowling has a history of doing Not Great things but like y’all realize that ppl are still allowed to enjoy the movies and books and shit despite them being problematic?? like as long as you are capable of recognizing the issues that a thing has, knowing that those issues are valid reasons for others not liking the thing, and not excusing the problems w the thing, then you can still like the thing.
you are allowed to enjoy problematic things.
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In fact, I am going to go watch it. I am excited to go watch it, I don’t care what y’all think and I most certainly not going to let it stop me from enjoying myself.
Unfollow me if you want to. I mean I came here to write shitty fics and have fun, but some of y’all are so anal about stuff that sometimes I don’t even want to get on tumblr anymore. As long as no one is getting hurt, let people enjoy stuff.
petition for a 100k fanfic series that’s just remus john lupin getting to go on holiday and having a good time and nothing going wrong
i’m afraid that’s technically impossible. many tried, none suceed. @wolfstarhq tried to write a cute fic about him going to a nice date on the beach and he almost died. it was still considered fluff. the fandom is incapable of writing something this sweet.