congratulations on figuring things out!
you can know what you are without having ever had a relationship! it’s actually pretty common place, a lot of people don’t like dating unless they are sure of what they are.
queer is a wonderful word that anyone who is lgbt+ can use! i personally love it because it says everything you need to know without having to go into the specifics. use it as much as you want and dont listen to the people who want to police your use of it!
well, from everything i have ever learned, a lot of people don’t actually define bisexuality as “being attracted to men and women”, but more often as “attracted to more than one gender”. it is completely possible to be attracted to every gender and to sill use bi instead of pan! remember, your labels are completely up to you. again, fuck the label police.
i hope this helps a little bit! so basically : call yourself what you want as long as you’re happy with it 🙂
Fuck JKR 