not to be offensive but it’ll probably come out that way I’m just curious how can you be a lesbian if you’re aroace ?? are you demiromantic ?? or ??

it’s no trouble 🙂

it means i am still aro and ace, but that i want a relationship and cant imagine it with someone else than a girl or a female-aligned enby, and also frequently stare at pretty girls and wish to cuddle and kiss them. it’s neither romantic nor platonic attraction, i think there actually is a specific term for that but i cant remember what is it.

labels are more generally not boxes to check, but fluid terms : you use the one that’s the closest to you 😉